Comment on Secret Garden - 怀念缺点

很多时候，我们往往会埋怨一些零零琐碎的事情。其实，我们本身是不敢面对现在生活环境。或许说，我们没有去珍惜身边周围的每一个东西，每一件事情，和每一位你我他。

当我们要去针对某一件事情，我们已经习惯了去想一些缺点。我们自以为会受到保护，因为我们已经排除了那些缺点。无形中我们没有得到正确的答案，还继续摸索去解决之前的谜底。

把事情看开吧。经常去寻找每一件事情的优点。尽量找出那些缺点的美。

…..明天会更好！

新年 - 留言

不知不觉，我们已走过了一段很奇妙的季节。
就在那段的夏天完成了又暑热又火辣的审定财务报表。
秋天就是我们的欢乐以及惜福的日子。
在冰天雪地的冬天也一起忙了年尾财务报告。
歇息一会儿，春天也来临了…

人生道路就像春夏秋冬。
有的时候喜怒哀乐，也有悲欢离合。
就是那么的挑战，那么的精彩。

在这个春节里，愿大家身体安康，步步高升。

珍惜所有，感恩每一天。

陳小弟 鞠躬。
二零一一年一月十八日

面子书：突然看到的

也是在某某的一天，在面子书里读到了一篇Chuah Hooi的文章。

突然看到的

by Chuah Hooi on Tuesday, 04 January 2011 at 23:48

A不喜欢吃鸡蛋，每次发了鸡蛋都给B吃。刚开始B很感谢，久而久之便习惯了。习惯了，便理所当然了。于是，直到有一天，A将鸡蛋给了C，B就不爽了。她忘记了这个鸡蛋本来就是A的，A想给谁都可以。为此，她们大吵一架，从此绝交。

有一年，很热的夏天，一队人出去漂流。

女孩的拖鞋在玩水的时候，把拖鞋掉下去了，沉底了。到岸边的时候，全是晒的很烫的鹅卵石，他们要走很长的一段路。于是，女孩儿就向别人寻求帮忙，可是谁 都只有一双拖鞋。女孩心里很不爽，因为她习惯了向别人求助，而只要撒娇就会得到满意地答复。可是这次却没有。她忽然觉得这些人都不好，都见死不救。

后来，有一个男孩将自己的拖鞋给了她，然后自己赤脚在那晒得滚烫的鹅卵石上走了很久的路。还自嘲说是铁板烧。女孩表示感谢，男孩说，你要记住，没有谁是 必须要帮你的。帮你是出于交情，不帮你是应该。女孩记住了男孩的话，自此以后学会了对施以援手的人铭记在心，并给以更大的回报。

很多时候，我们总是希望得到别人的好。

一开始，感激不尽。可是久了，便是习惯了。习惯了一个人对你的好，便认为是理所应当的。有一天不对你好了，你便觉得怨怼。其实，不是别人不好了，而是我们的要求变多了。习惯了得到，便忘记了感恩。

Extraction from http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=183886031641113&id=100000039494517

读完了这篇文章，我的第一个感想是也许往往的我们已缺少了珍惜吧。

当我们遇到困难的时候，亲朋好友总会伸出双手援助我们。
“谢谢” 以及 “感激” 也经常挂在嘴边。

自然而然的。。。 我们已渐渐忘记了怎么去珍惜所有得到的援助。

缺乏了珍惜，就变成了习惯，久而久之也转成了要求。

珍惜曾经拥有的，也珍惜现在拥有的。

面子书：哭给自己听、笑给别人看。在最伤心的时候， 只有自己安慰自己

在某某的一天，我在面子书里读到了一篇SのИg少的文章。

哭给自己听、笑给别人看。在最伤心的时候 只有自己安慰自己

by SのИg少 on Thursday, 06 January 2011 at 18:43

不知道什么时侯、

自己变的这么伤感、

总是不停的问自己、

为什么我活的这么累、

有时候无法面对这样自己、

每天重复着同样的生活、

我常常一个人独自待在屋里、

不知道什么时候、

才能习惯一个人、

是否自己已经变了、

也许是时间变了、

我一直以为自己是个很坚强的人、

但其实我没有想像中的那么坚强吧、

我喜欢把泪葬在心里、

我要微笑面对任何一件突如其来的事、

有时候突然从梦里醒来、

然后莫名奇妙的问自己我是怎么了？

一切都是莫名其妙、

身边的人来来去去、

我埋着头、

感受他们身上淡淡的味道、

为何都带有丝丝忧愁、

我希望生活简单、

讨厌复杂、

但是现在的生活也不复杂、

为何却让我感到烦躁；讨厌；厌恶；恶心、

忘记了从什麽时候开始了、

习惯独自一个人、

内心很脆弱、

也许是发生在我身边的是是非非让我改变、

我只有保持沉默、

心里好难受、心里好疼好痛、

觉得心里好委屈、

总是告诉自己要坚强、要忍、

却还是不争气的想放弃、

放弃的是什么、心里有说不出的滋味、

是那么的伤心？那么的心酸！我的好前途啊！

第一次觉得自己像行尸走肉一样、

没有思想、没有灵魂、

觉得自己好堕落、

想逃避这样的生活、

想过离开、可我不能、

我过的并不快乐、

我拼命的想让自己快乐起来、

可快乐却离我越来越远...

我笑了、都知道...

我哭了、谁知道...

Extraction from http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=168940316483132&id=172120906152218

人们的生活充满了压力，也充满了要求。有的时候，我们认为生活在这个社会里总是越来越复杂。我们经常失去了判断能力，也失去了自我。

也许我们一直活在那么匆忙的生活里，也不知不觉也失去了原有的梦想，或是个人的生活去向。。。 毕竟人生就是那么的挑战，以及这么的精彩。

人生的道路是慢长的。 也许累积一些生活经验，或是累了，休息一会儿。这样我们才能够继续走更遥远的路。

开斋节

哇，已经好久没有更新我的博客。工作量是太多了。几乎没有机会在周末时透透气，甚至还牺牲睡眠呢。。。

开斋节期间，1 Utama购物广场设计了鱼村板屋。好让人回到二十或三十年前的画面。

Farewell 2nd Quarter 2009 and Welcome 3rd Quarter 2009

Hi everyone. How are you getting on lately?

Yes, we are entering into the 3rd Quarter 2009. And yes, we are now in the month of July. Hope that everyone is in good health and cherish every moment for the next 6 months.

We should be considered lucky and thankful for the high-tech communication that we are having now. I remember that the communication tools in primary school days were only fixed-line telephone and letters, and then it slowly evolved into e-mail and IRC during secondary school days. Mobile phone, forum in the web and SMS became my important communication tools in university days. And now, we are having blog, video conference, multi-chatting, etc. Although everyone is busy these days, we still are able to communicate each other by a simple click.

So, have you communicate with your loves one?

逆风18

逆风18 - 上班族的感言

七个月前，我已在某一家国际公司被录取了。自从以后，我已成就的方向出发。过了七个月后的今天，总是觉得在自己的人生中仿佛少了原来的自己。。。

三年前，我是开始在审计公司工作。那时候的我，每天都是过着轻松的生活。每到周末时，我就会看一些连续剧。连续剧早已成为我在生活中不可缺少的东西。直到如今，我认为连续剧就是在讲故事的多媒体。会讲故事的多媒体总是永远留在人们心里。

记得我小时候，父母总是管教严肃，包括让我追看连续剧。但那时候的我并没有抗拒，是知道他们要我专注学业。在我的印象中，我的父母只让我们追看一部马来西亚连续剧，名叫“Petaling Street” （华语名字忘记了）。它是描述人们在Petaling Street的生活，也包含了一些有道德性的故事。它的故事总是让我流连忘返，仿佛是在昨天刚看完那部连续剧。

记得在读大学的时候，偶像剧在马来西亚渐渐地开始受到年轻们的注目。其中有一部四位最有钱帅哥的偶像剧，好让那时候的女性朋友们进入疯狂的状态。平时从不露面的女同学也牺牲了温暖的房间，乖乖地在食堂买了晚餐后，就准时地坐在电视机前等待她们心目中的偶像。

这些年，我对偶像剧没有任何的肯定。更何况本国所出版的偶像剧总是让我感到失望。有些故事都有到位，只欠演员的功夫还未到家。真的，有些没有情绪偶像派的演员好让观众们感到不自在，好不自然。有时候，我反问自己，为何那时候的导演没有再追求改进呢？有些演员的技巧还是专业，但是故事以及配音还没到完美的境界。

在七个多月里，为工作而拚的我，几乎不知道有什么最新的偶像剧。更何况目前我所租的房间没有Astro卫星电视台。

在某个星期六的夏天，为了减压，就在下班后到1 Utama 广场逛街。就在某店柜台上的某个DVD，好让我引起注目。那就是逆风18。

说实话，那个名字“逆风18”好让我引起好奇心。有一段句子，好让我决定买下这部偶像剧，“18岁的这一年，我学会飞行不一定要顺风；正如你随着季候风而来，但走如逆风”。

逆风18是一部单纯18岁的年轻人的故事。故事里包含了友情、爱情、期望、以及珍惜。这部连续剧是描述了在我们在日常生活里的某一段故事，几乎是每一位的我们都有曾经历过的。

故事的主场景发生在台北，讲述一个来自美国籍的18岁男孩左斯华，带着逝世母亲的怀念，回到台北与素未谋面的外婆一起度过一个寒假的故事。在台北他结识了属于台北的朋友们，彼此之间的文化好奇和初探，经历了敌对、冲突、互助到最后感受了真正的友谊和爱情，让大家学会勇敢的面对问题，也对真实的自己多了一份的认识。

从DVD里的幕后花絮才知道，导演于中中非常讲究每个演员的自然情绪和演技。经过他的丰富经验以及指导之下，以及所有每一位演员的刻苦耐劳，好让这部偶像剧拥有自己特殊的生命力和色彩。

过了6个多小时的接力赛，逆风18总算给了我一个完美的句号。就是因为逆风18的存在，点燃了往后偶像剧的希望。

《故事开始，逆风18没给我很多期待；故事的结束，逆风18却让我期待更多。》

对于那些上班族的你，若你还没看过这部偶像剧，赶紧到商店去购买逆风18 DVD。支持连续剧、支持有才华的演员、支持感人的故事、以及支持正版。

新年快乐！

新年快乐,

恭喜发财!

Happy 牛 Year!

2009, Here We Come!

送走旧年的时候，
也送走了一年的阴郁，
迎来新春的时候，
也迎来了未来的希望，
告别旧年，走向新岁，
愿你2009越来越好。

Happy New Year。

新的品味，新的尝试，新的环境

在回去吉隆坡的前夕，妈妈烘出了她的新作品。
不知叫什么名字，应该还没取吧。
虽然是第一次，我已经是爱上了那个点心。
品味啊 - 当然是赞不绝口。哈哈！嘿，好馋嘴哦。

明天就是我第一天加入新的公司。
真的希望一切都顺利。
希望在新的环境下，好让我有接触到
新的尝试，新的挑战，新的知识。。。

现在：一个星期的假期

穿越了雄壮的山脉
在山顶上享受第一时刻的日出

沿着广阔的高速公路
朝向东海岸的收悉和温馨阳光

老家，我回来了。

Countdown: The Last Day In My First Career…

倒数：在第一家公司的最后一天…

人生的故事就像一部戏剧。那么工作生活的点点滴滴也是戏剧里的其中之一。已过了无数的潮浪风波，不知不觉地在第一份工作竟然打工了三年之久。是时候应该要看下一集的戏剧哦。哈哈哈。。。

不知道明天的心情会是怎样。。。如果换是你们，那么你们的心情会是如何呢？

P/S: 当我的弟弟在实验他的新玩具时(http://flysheep.blogspot.com/2008/09/50.html)，我采用了一架普通的数码相机Canon PowerShot A540，为它争一口气。当然，那只是一架普通的相机吧。哈哈哈。。。

Countdown: The Last Day In My First Career…

The story of human life is like a soap opera. Well, the tale of working life is part of the chapter in soap opera. After countless time of ups and downs, I never realize that I have been working for three years in my first career. It's about to time to watch the next episode of the soap opera. Ha ha ha…

I'm not sure what kind of feeling that I will be facing tomorrow… What about you all?

P/S: While my younger brother is testing his new toy (http://flysheep.blogspot.com/2008/09/50.html), I tried to use a point-and-shot digital camera Canon PowerShot A540, to prove that a normal digital camera is not bad either. Of course, the Canon PowerShot A540 still has a lot of limitation when we talk about the function. Ha ha ha…

中秋月饼

好久没有回家乡了。最后一次回家是农历新年。

如果我没记错，我应该有好几年没回家过中秋了。
四年在北大大学以及将近三年出外工作。。。

到了家门口后，眼睛开始在不断扫瞄着猎物。
慢慢地朝向它攻击。。。

妈妈烘出那些温馨的月饼，好令人垂涎三尺。
吃后，我都会感到幸福哦~！

中秋节快乐！

真的，我没事...

已经很久没有享受着漫长的周末了。
打开了自己的部落格，才发现已有三个月没更新了。

躺在椅子上，回想自己在这几个月里在忙什么。
也不知道自己有没有达到目标及成就。
仿佛已失去了原来的自己。

最近，感觉上自己依然欺骗着自己的情绪
最近，感觉上自己还是选择了逃避着事实
最近，感觉上自己仍然折磨着复原的伤口

看来，是时候要安慰自己了。

真的， 我没事… 我没事…

Forgot to recall when is the last time I enjoyed the weekend.
Open up my blog and then I realize that my blog is outdated for 3 months long.

Lying on the chair, thinking back what I have done for the last couple of months.
Not sure whether I have reached my goals and achievements.
Sound like I have lost the real thing of me.

Feel like I'm still lying to my own emotions these days.
Feel like I'm still choosing to escape from the facts these days.
Feel like I'm still torturing on the healed injuries these days.

Looks likely it's time to console to myself.

Well, I'll be fine… I'll be fine…

Ill be fine

恭喜，恭喜。。。

这个世界似乎越来越狭窄。在Friendster中，竟然我找到了多年失去联络的中学朋友。她有回复我的留言，也邀请我参加她的婚宴。

她是其中一位榜上有名的学生。读完中五，我们各自选择自己的路途。有好几位，包括她，去学院上课，而其他继续读中六。就在那时候，我渐渐地开始失去了他们的联络。

再次谢谢你邀请我出席您的婚宴。

恭喜。

"相配
天长地久
恩爱
白头偕老"

The world is getting smaller. I was able to track back one of my long lost schoolmates, thanks to the power of Friendster. She did reply my e-mail and invite me to attend her wedding dinner.

She was one of the brilliant students in secondary school. We went to separate directions after Form 5; a number of friends, including her, went to college while a few of us were pursuing Form 6. I lost their contacts soon after I started my tertiary education.

Thanks for inviting me to your wedding dinner. I'm honored. I'm glad to meet up with other secondary friends too. That was meaningful.

Congratulations, Mr. and Mrs. Hoong.

Mr. & Mrs Pik, congratulation!

Mr. & Mrs. Pik

One of the wedding bells was ringing tremendously in the middle of Malacca town. I was honored to attend another university friends' wedding dinner. (Oh... did I mention that is BOTH of them, the bride and groom?)

This was my forth time to pay a short visit in Malacca. I remember that the first time I went to Malacca with my family when I was still studying in primary school. Nothing can visit many historical places as that was one day trip during that time.

The second and third time visit to Malacca was because of the work. My boss brought us to one of the secretary firms in town to perform statutory audit over a few of our clients. (In fact that firm is situated nearby with the venue of Mr. and Mrs. Pik's wedding dinner, and that was really brought back some memories.)

We went down to Malacca by car pool. Of course, I was finally met up with Mr. & Mrs. Tan during the ride. The last time i met up with them was on their wedding day. I really glad that Mr. & Mrs. Tan have their own child now. By looking at the photos from Mr. Tan's mobile phone, I can tell you that the four months and three weeks old baby was in very good health, chubby and cute. I bet that their baby able to win in those baby contests with no doubt.

Frankly speaking, that was my first time to have a dinner with Malacca style. Maybe that was my first time. I feel that the food were unique for me.

We were not staying over night in Malacca. We reached back to Klang on the next early morning. I reached back to Petaling Jaya at around 1:30p.m. That is the reason why I am still sleepy now.

Wishing Mr. & Mrs. Pik have a wonderful journey with the lifetime of love! Congratulation to both of you!!!

Note:

Some of my university friends claimed that they are not able to view my recent articles. I was thinking hard after I woke up this morning. I checked the website coding and there is nothing wrong there. Suddenly, something flashed in my mind. Maybe those articles were written in Mandarin character. You may have two alternatives to solve that problem.

First solution is to buy and install Chinese Star 2006 program.

The second solution

You may implement the second solution, if you are using the Windows XP or higher as your operating system. All you need to do is go to Control Panel, double-click into Regional and Language Option, and then click on the tab called Languages. After that, you may see a subtitle called Supplemental language support, just tick both of the box (Install for complex script and Install for East Asian languages). You may check on the Advance tab, and select any coding which is related to the Chinese languages. Click Apply to install the plug-in. You may able to read Mandarin character after the installation.

Have a good day!

母亲节

转眼间，秒针静静擦过了身旁

五月的那天，充满了康乃馨的花香

走向前，轻轻地就在您的耳旁

说。。。 "母亲节快乐！"


母亲节起源：http://hiroshi-tan.blogspot.com/2007/05/blog-post.html

Congratulation, my friend!!! 恭喜哦~~~

I was driving on the damp and wet North-South Highway last Saturday, 8th March 2008. I was still wondering whether my decision was right. Both of my course mates (both of them are Mr. Lee coincidentally) were able to exercise their votes before we start our journey towards Bukit Mertajam. One of them was exercising his vote in Klang and the other was in Taiping. Another course mate, Mr. Lew from Malacca and I did not perform our duty as a voter on that morning.

Before that, I purposely registered myself as a legitimate voter at the beginning of this year. I really sacrifice myself from performing my duty and my right on that Election Day. Only one reason for that: I MUST attend Mr. and Mrs. Choong's wedding dinner (牺牲小我，完成大我啊。。。 开玩笑。。。). He was also one of my course mates during my university days. I get to know his beloved wife, Mrs. Choong, since primary school days and she was also my course mates too.

Too many cars on that Saturday and we saw two major car accidents along the way. After I met up with my younger brother at Auto City in Bukit Mertajam, we had a short rest in our hotel. We had "small gathering" with other course mates in our room.

The wedding dinner was held in simple and meaningful way. Perhaps other people claimed that I was too tired and hungry during that time; but deep inside my heart I can tell you that all the food were nice and superb.

Wishing both of you have a wonderful beginning... Begin on the journey to a lifetime of love! 祝你们白头偕老。Congratulation, both of my friends! 恭喜恭喜！

I'm Alive!

Well, I really miss you guys out there. How do you do?

After 1½ months of waiting, my personal computer is able to connect with the world again. Finally!

I try to update my blog frequently. I'll try my very best.

Have a nice day!

Unlucky 倒霉

My blog was not always updated lately. Too many work need to be done. Or in other word, too limited time to spend on personal matters or hobbies or do something that I wished for long time ago.

I really have an unthinkable disaster recently. My computer was "acting abnormally" for the pass few days. It was just out-of-order on the 15th this month. My motherboard was sent back to the factory under warranty claim. I had no other option but need to wait. I was told that the fastest I may get back my motherboard at least a month.

How I'm able to update my blog right now? Well, I borrow my friend's computer. Now, I can continue my daily routine such as update my personal account and check e-mail. No more online chat, MSN, video conferencing or online call. This computer that I borrow is very old, at least 3 or 4 years old, but I glad that I can update my blog now.

I hope that it is not too late for me to wish you all Happy New Year and welcome to the year 2008. I also wish you all a Happy Chinese New Year.

我有一段时间没有更新我的博客。年头太多工作要赶。或另外可说是没有足够的私人时间去实现自己想要做的事。

现在事情已变成恶劣、火上加油。我的电脑已是彻底受重伤。现在那电脑的电板仍然在紧急室里抢救，还需要至少一个月的时间去接受治疗。

现在我暂时向朋友借他的旧电脑来使用。 至少我还可以继续做帐、上网以及更新博客。也许这电脑太旧吧，我不能MSN, video conferencing 或是online call。

祝你们在鼠年呢，钞票数来数去数不清，事事一帆风顺！新年快乐！